How do you touch your partner?
Day to day, when you wake up, when you say goodbye, when you get home at the end of a long day, when you go to bed, when you makelove? How do you touch your partner?
Do you touch your partner?
Is the touch you give for you or for them?
My husband will often touch me gently as he walks past me while I'm just going about my day. It always surprises me, but I always enjoy it. It makes me feel special and that he is thinking of me.
When I walk by him sitting in his office I often stop and stroke his hair or kiss his head, with the intention of wanting connection and wanting him to feel seen, appreciated, loved.
The other day when we got out of the pool, after he was dried my husband lay on the bed naked with his eyes closed. We are in Queensland, it's bloody hot! No one wants to get dressed straight away.
And as I dried myself I looked at him and just wanted to touch him. I didn't want to touch his manhood ( well not straight away lol ) I wanted him to feel sensation. I wanted him to really feel my touch. Knowing his eyes were closed and he wasn't expecting me made it a little more exciting as I softly kissed his upper inner thigh. He flinched and moaned in sync. And I quickly kissed the other, but higher up almost right at his groin, with a little suck on the flesh.
I won't tell you anymore, but let's just say he was a very happy sailor before I even sought out his..... happiness. Touch can be so magical.
The time we take and effort we put into touching our partner, whether making love or walking past them day to day, it all matters. It all makes up part of your connection and your relationship communication style.
So i ask you to consider, how do you touch your partner?